Maybe it's the fact I'm just plain foreign, or the fact I'm trying my hardest to assimilate and learn the language (gaining respect?), but many times I receive small gifts.
Last week I was given an eggplant by a teacher I never talk to. He said he had picked it from the school garden. Many times I'll get served treats or a cool beverage at school, since the staff is never without snacks and drinks. Often for me, I find mere conversation a gift. Teachers are busy people, and who doesn't like to be acknowledged and conversed with? It's a bigger barrier to speak to someone who might be a little different than you and might have problems understanding you. My students occasionally give me drawings, letters, and interesting conversation, which is nice. When I was sick with bronchitis, I was given tons of food by my friends. I love and appreciate all of it, especially on the days I feel a bit bewildered or alien. By far, the most random thing I've received happened last week.
I go to a walk-in dermatologist office relatively often and it's always busy. My doctor is a nice lady, and sometimes I wonder how she handles the constant flow of patients. The Japanese aren't ones to get impatient and start showing it like we Americans do sometimes. My visits are always quick 5 minute checkups but the waiting might take time. At the end of our last encounter, she randomly grabbed the pretty origami goldfish (made of really nice paper) including a small paper pond off of her desk and gave them to me. My brain didn't quite register it... I hadn't even noticed they were on her desk until she put them in my hands. One minute we were talking skin care and I was ready to rush out the door and now... I'm walking out with 2 goldfish, a pond, my meds, and a confused look.
Now I have lovely table decoration and a delicious eggplant in my tummy.
Here are the fish swimming on my laptop:
On a totally separate note, I have to express my love for something. I, like many girls, love to clothes shop. I don't buy a lot, but a girl's gotta refresh her wardrobe once in awhile. Sometimes I'm very disappointed by how small clothing runs here, but one thing I can always find is.... SHOES! I love shoes. The shoes here follow with Japanese fashion, where sometimes anything goes. I don't buy much in the off-the-wall category, but I love to try them on. When I arrived in Japan, I only had 2 pairs of shoes in my suitcase: some sneakers and a nicer pair of shoes. I remedied that quickly:
Bought a pair of Vans in Fukuoka before Casey and I went to Korea. I'm glad I did... we did a lot of walking! This is probably why they look kinda dirty in this picture. The snazzy boots on the right were bought in Seoul. I love that they are lined and the snaps can be unsnapped to give them a bit of a different look. Casey also bought some insanely cute boots and heels in Korea.
Today I bought these beauties for about $7.70 at a local discount store called Shimamura:
I can't wait to wear these. As you can see, they still have the tags on them. I really wanted to take a picture of all the great/crazy shoes today I saw at Shimamura but I went around closing time. Next time I'll have a shoe montage, I swear.
i luv the shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! buy me some!!! please
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